A new client was in my office putting together their legal documents. I was gathering their family information and asked what her biggest concern was. “What if I can’t take care of him?” she asked. I explained that one of the reasons it is so important to update all your legal documents is to have someone in place in case you, as the spouse, are no longer able to care for your loved one with dementia.
If you don’t have a plan, often the only option will be court. Living Probate court, also known as Conservatorship, is a living hell. The cost can be a huge bundle of money, and the court takes over your loved one’s life. They could be stuck with a stranger handling their affairs. I am truly passionate about keeping families out of that court.
I am in that court about once a month as Court Appointed Counsel. I am happy when I am able to help families take care of their loved ones; I hate it when the option I must recommend is a neutral stranger. When families hire me to file for Conservatorship, I know that my fees and the Court Appointed Attorney’s fees will take money that could be used for care. I also know there is no other option. I really hate it when families fight because all the money that goes to all the attorneys could be used for the person who needs help and care.
If you are taking care of a loved one, please call me so we can update your documents and keep your family out of court.
