My mom has been in heaven for some time now, but not a day goes by that I don’t mentally thank her for all she did for me. Over the years, I’ve helped many parents navigate the death of a spouse—the loss of their child’s other parent—gone too soon. Each time I walk with them through the legal paperwork, I’m reminded just how difficult it is to lose a partner.
For some, like my mom, it’s the loss of the primary breadwinner, leaving them to figure out how to return to work and pay the bills. For others, it’s the loss of the one who managed the home—the person who kept everything running—someone truly irreplaceable.
As I’ve watched these brave parents, I’ve come to appreciate even more how much my mom shielded me from the hardest parts. She not only went back to work, but she built a life for us filled with happiness. And beyond that, she saved and invested wisely, leaving me with resources that help care for me in my own later years. I will always be grateful for all she did.
I hope you’re never in the position of being the parent left to go on alone. But if you are, give me a call—I’m here to help you navigate what comes next.
