I recently helped a lovely woman who had just received a devastating diagnosis: advanced pancreatic cancer. She chose not to pursue treatment, opting instead to enjoy her remaining time. Doctors told her she likely had only a few months—she lived for two meaningful years.
During that time, we created her Will, Trust, and Financial and Medical Powers of Attorney—everything she needed for peace of mind. Despite the diagnosis, she remained remarkably upbeat.
I just received the call that she passed.
I spoke with her two closest friends, who were deeply involved in her care. They told me how grateful they were that I had come to her home to do the legal work. Leaving the house was difficult for her, and she didn’t want to risk catching something—even a minor cold could have been serious. I remembered our most recent visit just four months ago when we discovered an old account still in her late husband’s name. We made sure it was properly titled in her name so it could be passed on according to her wishes.
She had no children—her friends were her found family. They were surprised and touched to learn she had left them her modest estate. I shared how she spoke of them with such love and appreciation. They had been there for her every step of the way—bringing meals, driving her to appointments, checking in daily, and including her in their lives.
She told me how much she had loved helping with fundraisers for their kids and how she hoped the money she left would help them do even more for their grandchildren.
Her planning made a meaningful difference—not only for her peace of mind, but for the people she loved. Without it, everything would have gone to distant relatives she barely knew.
If you’re facing a devastating diagnosis and need to put your legal affairs in order, give me a call. I make house calls and would be honored to help.
