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October 23, 2025

Your Aging Parent May Need Help Before They Ask for It

“You can’t see the forest for the trees.”

It’s an old saying and it applies all too well to dementia.

When you or a loved one begins showing signs of mild cognitive impairment or early-stage dementia, it often starts small. A missed appointment. A late bill. Forgetting to eat. Buying the same item over and over.

Individually, these seem minor.

But together, they form a larger picture. One that’s hard to see when you’re living in the middle of it.

The problem is, these subtle signs can leave people vulnerable to:

  • Scams and financial abuse
  • Self-neglect, hoarding, or poor hygiene
  • Impulsive decisions that drain retirement savings
  • Lapsed payments on critical bills

That’s why I encourage all of my aging clients to name a Co-Trustee or Junior Trustee, usually an adult child, before memory issues become serious. Having someone in place early helps:

Catch financial red flags

Ensure bills and benefits are handled properly

Step in quickly if legal authority is needed

This kind of proactive planning can make the difference between peace of mind and expensive mistakes, or even court intervention.

If you or someone you love is aging and starting to show signs of forgetfulness, don’t wait for a crisis. Let’s put a plan in place before the forest disappears behind the trees.

Give me a call. I’m here to help.

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